LARRY SOSMAN: Computer Graphics JANE NEWMAN: Teacher
Larry and Jane have been together for five years, met in high school and now go to SUNY:Marist College in Upstate New York.
He's a Sagittarius and she's Cancer.
"Wow, how does that work?" I wondered
"Well, I know I had my chart done before and I was told that although I am a Cancer, my ascendant or rising sign is Sagittarius"
"And you?" Pointing to Larry
"My ascendant is Gemini.but my moon is in Cancer"
"That makes sense, then..."
"My moon is in Scorpio"
"so you know him pretty well, eh?"
"She thinks she does...", he exclaimed
"No, I know I know you"
"Ok, whatever..." He mused
"Is this a ritual with you guys?"
"sometimes it is, but it's hard to get him to agree to anything-let alone stick to something for any length of time"
"Is that true, Larry?"
"Whatever...I mean I don't like to get stuck on something-anything for too long. It makes me restless-and she always asks me questions as to why and how I do things"
"so what's wrong with that?"
"it's nagging to me-"
"Nagging?! Nagging?!" she shrieked
Oh?! He shouldn't have said that!
ANYONE with a GEMINI ASCENDANT, whether male or female, will lack in PATIENCE and STAYING STAMINA.
And this can be psychologically, emotionally, or even physically challenging for the Gemini ascendant person (and even more straining to the partner!)
The fact that he feels that she nags him offends her-not so much because she's a Cancer, and therefore, sensitive-BUT MORE SO, because HER ASCENDANT FALLS ON HIS SEVENTH HOUSE OF COOPERATION, CODEPENDENCY, AND PARTNERSHIP.
She looks to HIM for LEADERSHIP and to set the EXAMPLE in the RELATIONSHIP.
And knowing Cancer women, she probably didn't tell him that she holds such expectations of him.
He, on the other hand, having a CANCER MOON, should make him more sensitive-SO YOU'D THINK...
If I had a CANCER MOON I would not have made that insensitive comment-KNOWING it would hurt this type of woman...
"What do yo mean, nagging, Larry?"
"she doesn't let up. She goes on emotion more than logic-and I don't have tolerance for that..."
She shoots him a "glance", then speaks evenly, "...you know that's not what it is..." Her stare was "icy" and "penetrating" (this is the SCORPIO MOON AT WORK!)
Her Scorpio Moon SEXTILES Neptune, the planet of intuition and the paranormal. Neptune aspecting the Moon will REVEAL THAT WHICH IS HIDDEN...
The Moon makes a TRINE ASPECT with her MARS, which gives her the EMOTIONAL COURAGE to say what she has to say without any reservation-even thou she LOOKS innocent and disarming...
Larry's ASCENDANT IN GEMINI OPPOSES HER SAGITTARIUS ASCENDANT!
What does this mean?
It means that Larry, being cerebral (Gemini) will hold to his own METHOD OF THINKING AND REASONING.
His "method" of logic and reasoning will be "rejected" or "opposed" by his girlfriend who will be coming from a DIFFERENT FRAME OF REFERENCE concerning the SAME ISSUE OR ARGUMENT.
SAGITTARIUS rules OPINIONS and DOGMATIC VIEWS.
She will most probably IMPOSE her IDEOLOGY or PROJECT THEM to her boyfriend-AND WILL GET UPSET IF HE DOESN'T SEE HER VIEW AS THE RIGHT OPINION.
This will inevitably cause "CONFLICT"
Back to the question of his CANCER MOON; The reason why he seems so 'disconnected' emotionally from Jane, and seems to have a "mean streak" to his carping comments, is because his MARS SQUARES HER MOON!
His OWN Mars squares his MOON as well...
This is extremely IMPORTANT; To know that his own Moon squares his own Mars. This suggests that he LEARNED THIS TYPE OF EVASIVE AND INSENSITIVE BEHAVIOR FROM HIS OWN PARENTS!
Social Scientists tells us all the time that we learn our own behaviors from our parents-that the spiral of GENERATIONAL PATTERNS are not only MEASURABLE in social science, it can also be DETECTED ASTROLOGICALLY.
His moon squaring his girlfriend's moon is RECAPITULATING THE BEHAVIORAL DYNAMICS OF HIS PARENTS.
In private, I asked specific questions concerning his childhood-and of course, my theory was CONFIRMED...
APPEARANCES CAN BE DECEIVING CAN THEY...?
Now this couple ALSO HAS A CANCER/SAGITTARIUS CHART COMBINATION:
This couple is TEN YEARS OLDER than our couple in the above example (Larry and Jane).
However, their charts are COMPLETELY DIFFERENT.
She's a CANCER and he's a SAGITTARIUS.
He has a GEMINI ASCENDANT, BUT ALSO HAS THE PLANET SATURN ON THE ASCENDANT (which gives him a melancholy type of "look" to him. He never smiles, according to his girlfriend)
She, on the other hand, has her MOON IN SAGITTARIUS AS WELL AS HAVING THE SIGN ON THE ASCENDANT.
"She hogs all the attention!" He exclaims
"That's not true..."
"She thinks she's a Diva, Fernando!"
"I am! I-mean, look at me!" standing up and giving us a quick twirl, and snapping her fingers, "why wouldn't I think I'm all that and a bag of chips..."
"Both of you are very attractive and both of you are very attractive both together and separately-so what's the problem?" I asked
There was a slight pause; they both look at each other, then at me and nod their heads
"We were hoping that you would tell us..."
HELL NO! I was not about to do the work for them.
This couple KNOWS what's going on, but want to project BLAME on each other-OR ME! (should they need a "scapegoat")
If I had to say which one was the guiltier party, I would have to say that it is Socha; because she's constantly complaining about Robert.
He, on the other had, never complaints, never (according to Socha) talks, or even materially participates with others-including members of his own family.
What Socha didn't REALIZE was that this was SATURN ON THE ASCENDANT.
If truth be known, Robert has ALWAYS BEEN THIS WAY SINCE BIRTH!
SATURN on the ASCENDANT will make you kinda "a bore", "uninteresting", you give off a "depressing presence", and an "intolerance" for normal vicissitudes of mundane life. The simple joys of life will be "irritating" to this man.
She has a SAGITTARIAN MOON on his SEVENTH HOUSE of COOPERATION.
It OPPOSSES ROBERT'S SATURN on the ASCENDANT!
A SATURN-M00N OPPOSITION in a COMPATIBILITY CHART will always spell "EMOTIONAL CONFLICT, FRUSTRATION, and BLATANT MISUNDERSTANDINGS"
SATURN will UNDERMIND THE EMOTIONAL "NEEDS" OF THE PARTNER (Robert will do this)
And Socha will INTENTIONALLY SABOTAGE, DISRESPECT, DISREGARD, AND IGNORE, THE DIGNIFIED DISCIPLINE OF SATURN (and the inherent lesson to be learned, for sure)
ROBERT'S MARS is in industrious, but EMOTIONALLY DISTANT VIRGO.
BUT MARS IN VIRGO IS EXCELLENT FOR THE "WORKAHOLIC" TYPE, which Robert certainly is (I gather work is an "escape" for Robert-from everyone, including himself)
"Do you make a good living, Robert?"
"Yes, he does", she cuts in
"And that should be enough for you.." He exclaims
"You see, Fernando. He thinks that financial compensation is equivalent to emotional closeness-and it's not! I need emotional closeness from you!" turning to face him.
"I don't know what you want from me, Socha! I show you how much I love you-I mean I buy you anything you fucking want-dude!"
"So what! Is that suppose to make me feel satisfied emotionally? I may like clothes-heck I love clothes but don't get it twisted. Those clothes by no means makes my pussy wet. You want me to fuck you, right?"
"No, let's hatch it out now!" Then turns to face me, "Fernando, how am I suppose to want to fuck him, get my pussy wet for his dick...! If he doesn't show me that he wants me?! Sure, he shows me he loves me, but I need to feel that he loves me or else this shop (pointing to her goin) is closed!"
"You really are angry, aren't you?"
"Shit! wouldn't you be if you had no dick for months?!"
Her anger is attributed to her MARS IN CANCER, which is in its FALL (and not good in a Woman's chart)
THIS EXAMPLE IS DIFFERENT FROM THE OTHER TWO ABOVE.
THIS IS A FATHER AND DAUGHTER TEAM!
ALLEN ROSENBERG AND HIS DAUGHTER RUN EVERY SATURDAY BEFORE THE START OF THE DAY...
"MARY ELLEN HAS ALWAYS SHOWN AN INCLINATION FOR SPORTS"
He admits proudly
"SINCE HOW OLD?"
"I WOULD GO OUT JOGGING WHILE SHE WAS STILL IN HER STROLLER. SO I WOULD SAY...EIGHT MONTHS..."
"WOW, YOU PUT THE 'BUG' IN HER EAR, EH?"
"YEAH, I GUESS..."
"DO YOU HAVE ANY SONS?"
"NOPE, ONLY DAUGHTERS"
"YOU HAVE MORE?" Surprised
"FIVE MORE, BUT MARYELLEN IS THE ONLY ONE THAT LIKES TO RUN WITH ME TO THIS DAY"
"DID YOU RUN WITH THE OTHERS ON THEIR STROLLERS?"
"CERTAINLY DID, BUT ONLY MARY ELLEN PERSISTED"
IN charting his five other children, it was discovered that Maryellen's chart had MARS (which rules MEN) in the SPORTY sign of SAGITTARIUS
Her father is a SAGITTARIUS.
She is a VIRGO. And her father has a VIRGO MOON!
She will be ATTRACTED to men who bare a RESEMBLANCE to her father in both the physical and the psychological.
He also is a HEALTH FREAK (which is very Virgonian!).
Her moon is in ARIES-her father's ascendant!
Need say any more???